“Self discovery is the process of learning more about yourself and who you are. An example of self discovery is going to therapy or meditating to have time to consider and contemplate your strengths and weaknesses.” This definition was found on www.yourdictionary.com and is an example of how to create the meaningful life that you are meant to experience. It is a part of Self Mastery: the distance between upset and reset. Finding your center of balance. Self Mastery is not about being perfect and it is not a judgment of someone else’ balance. it is about finding that place of peace within yourself, whatever that is. For some of us that peace has more quiet time for reading, contemplation, or creativity. For others it maybe more time with family and loved ones and being more active. Where ever your center is, that is where your self mastery is. The important thing is not to judge that against others. Find it in yourself. It starts with meditation. Meditation comes out of being completely in the moment, once you observe yourself in that moment and make judgement about it you are out of meditation. It is a practice and if during that practice we get a moment or two of complete clarity we have succeeded.
We can meditate in many ways. Most people think of meditation as being a seated practice, but one can also meditate standing, moving, or doing the mundane tasks with complete immersion in what you are doing. Yoga, Qi Gong, Tai Chi, are all examples of moving meditation, but you could also do silent walks where you are completely focused on what is around you without judgement or story.
Inner Smile Meditation.
“An inner smile radiates powerful healing energy. Start with the eyes. Practice the inner smile by closing your eyes and smiling sincerely into them. Relax and let a deep, loving smile shine through your eyes. By relaxing your eyes you can calm your entire nervous system. Continue by smiling down the front line (from the eyes down through your vital organs towards the genitals effortlessly like a waterfall): into the face (especially the jaws), neck, heart and blood circulatory system, the lungs, liver, kidneys, adrenals, pancreas, spleen, bladder and genitals. Continue by smiling down the Middle Line: Smile down from the mouth to the stomach, small intestine, large intestine and rectum, simultaneously swallowing saliva. The Back Line: smile down the inside of the vertebrae of your spine, one by one.” (Chi Fit for Life, Michael Leone)
We also talked about the energetics of foods and the concept of Primary Food. Food can be measured in many ways–not only for its nutrition, but for the experience it gives to you and the energy it creates in your body. You’ve heard it said “you are what you eat.” It is true that food makes up the cells in your body, but have you ever thought it may also impact your relationship to life?
Primary food is everything that feeds our soul and who we are. Primary foods feed us, but they don’t come on a plate.
Learn more about the energetics of food and the importance of Primary food by signing up for our next Vibrant Health and Wellness workshop series.
Stay tuned for dates and times. Please call Darby at 914-393-2423 if you are interested in scheduling a free consultation to get you started!
We had a great start last Saturday embarking on our 12 week journey towards vibrant health and wellness. We started by creating an awareness of where we are now and where we want to be heading towards. Only by being aware of what isn’t working in our life but accepting ourselves for where we are at can we begin to create a map of small achievable goals that will help us get to where we ultimately want to be.
By understanding that our internal beliefs manifest themselves to the outside we can start to change the dialog we have with ourselves. And that’s where we begin.
by Marianne Williamson.
Stay tuned for dates and times. Please call Darby at 914-393-2423 if you are interested in scheduling a free consultation to get you started!
My son Alex is starting off his career as a Strength and Conditioning Trainer. He just graduated from URI (University of Rhode Island) and has a wealth of knowledge and expertise. I am so proud of him and his ability to think for himself not to just go with the mainstream.
Here is his take on Function vs Strength: “It’s been debated over and over again. Most stick with one side or another. This is a problem because they’re basically the same thing! Look, squatting to depth is a functional exercise no ifs, ands, or but(t)s about it. You can focus on strength by adding a heavy external load, take away or lighten the load and you are working on the functional squatting pattern. I know functional training is more complex than one movement pattern, as well as strength training, but when we combine these two modes of training we can make the most progress.”
He is absolutely right. We squat every day when we sit. In China you often find people squatting, reading the newspaper while they wait for the bus. It is a function of longevity. If done correctly there is little risk to the knees in fact it is a part of maintaining health knees. Yoga, Tai Chi, Qi Gong all encourage daily squatting practice.
Yoga is a “Body/Mind/Spirit” experience. We know the physics of movement; “a body in motion, stays in motion” and through continual flowing movements of yoga we become more cognizant of ourselves and learn to relax the body and clear the mind, especially of the more obvious stressors; job, finances, relationships, etc. Through breath and movement we align our bodies and connect to a relaxed state.
The mind and body connection may be obvious to some but unrecognized by others. As we loose the connection to our feelings many think of these pains and discomforts in our body as warnings about impending disease when most of the time you can calm them by just feeling the feelings and recognizing where they come from then releasing them.
We have sayings that express exactly that connection. Let’s look at some of the ways we express discomfort, what our mind is saying and how our bodies might be manifesting.
“he carries the weight of the world on his shoulders” – Stress – Shoulder pain, frozen shoulder, unnecessary surgeries…
“the hairs on the back of his neck stood straight up” – Fear, anxiety – Heart problems, arrhythmia, mental disorder…
“Pit of the stomach” – Dread, nervousness, knowing that your love is not returned… – can lead to IBS, stomach problems
“heart is heavy ” – Sad, overburdened – depression,
“head about to burst” – Angry – addictions
These sayings imply a mind/body connection, right? The ailments that sometimes lead us to seek a physician when all we need is to take some time for self-reflection? You’ve heard the saying “you are what you eat.” How about “you are what you think, feel?” Because we are a society that is encouraged to hold back feelings to keep us from being vulnerable or embarrassing to ourselves or others we have learned to ignore the instincts that tell us many things about ourselves. Over time stress in our body lay the foundation to many diseases that when not moved out, can get us hooked on unnecessary medications, bring us to the emergency room or worse, CANCER!
However, we can release these physical pains through exercise, meditation, a good cry or a big pillow to punch. Ancient eastern cultures have recognized the connection to body/mind/spirit for thousands of years and we are just now adapting the remedies they discovered like Yoga, Tai Chi, Qi Gong, and meditation.
Adding just a few movements a day to move the discomfort can result in a better nights sleep, being more focused and feeling more connected to self and others.
Sun Tea
Prep time: 2 minutes
Cook time: 24 hours
Yield: 2 liters
Ingredients:
3-4 tea bags of your choice
water
Directions:
1. Fill an extra-large mason jar with water, add 3 or 4 of your favorite tea bags and cover with lid.
2. Place in sun for one full day and let the shining rays pour in heat and energy, bringing out the wonderful tea flavors.
3. Sweeten if so desired with natural sweetener and serve at room temperature or cold over ice.
Note: Garnish with mint leaves or lemon wedge.
Ginger Drink
Prep Time: 7 minutes
Cook Time: 24 hours
Yield: 6-8 servings
Ingredients:
1 pound fresh ginger root
2 quarts water
juice of 2 limes
maple syrup or agave nectar to taste
Directions:
1. Thinly peel the fresh ginger, grate and mix with water in a large saucepan.
2. Bring to a boil and simmer for 4 minutes. Cover the pan and turn off the heat; leave
for 24 hours.
3. Strain the liquid through a fine mesh sieve.
4. Add the lime juice and maple syrup or agave. Stir until dissolved. Serve chilled.